What Surfaced From My Dark Night of the Soul

I've been quiet about what's been going on with me lately and I've got to tell you, it has been a dark night of the soul for sure. We all have them. Usually, for me, they happen when I am not doing what I really want to be doing in my life, or not spending my [...]

By |September 14th, 2018|Uncategorized|0 Comments

The Archetype of the Fire Woman

The Woman On Fire, The Fire Woman is a powerful archetype, a woman who owns all of who she is without apology. What does “without apology” mean? She makes her choices and follows her own internal compass no matter what others throw at her. She doesn’t say she’s sorry for being, for her choices, for [...]

By |August 6th, 2018|Uncategorized|1 Comment

Where Does the Unknown Scare You?

This week I was teaching a class on the body in my Fire Woman Program. I gave the women a body ritual to do and none of those present had done it, which I thought was odd. The ritual involves letting go of the negative ideas, thoughts and behaviors about your body so you can [...]

By |August 6th, 2018|Uncategorized|0 Comments

The Creative Impulse is the Nucleus of Sexual Self-Actualization (It’s Not About How Much Sex You Have)

We are just a month into the new year and many people are abandoning their workout plans and stressing about their financial plans with the stock market crash. But what are we doing about our sexual lives? People are in a lot of pain about their sexuality. I talk to people all the time about what [...]

By |February 9th, 2018|Uncategorized|1 Comment

It’s Not About You

  The communication blunders that happen on an everyday basis are truly astounding. Ever step back and watch two people get themselves into an argument that could have been completely avoided with a few simple tweaks? I’ve been thinking a lot about these communication blunders. For instance, how when a person is upset about something, and [...]

By |February 2nd, 2018|Relationships, Uncategorized|0 Comments

Why We March

We all have something to give in the world and we all have something to heal. Like hundreds of thousands of Americans, I marched last weekend in the Women’s March. Some people don’t understand why someone would go to a march, saying “It doesn’t make any difference.” Oh but it does. It makes a difference [...]

By |January 26th, 2018|Uncategorized|0 Comments

A New Day is on the Horizon

Did you see the Golden Globes? Or at least Oprah’s acceptance speech that went viral? We are in a moment. A deep, powerful moment and it’s up to all of us to harness it, to speak up, and to utilize this opportunity for creating change. Oprah said something really poignant that is actually so simple: “What [...]

By |January 12th, 2018|Uncategorized|0 Comments

Enough. Times Up.

That’s what a group of over 300 Hollywood actresses and executives said in a bold statement they put forth this past weekend, as the new year dinged in. At last, as countless victims of harassment, coercion, rape, and exploitation have spoken out and said, “Enough,” it feels like the solidarity of women and those who stand [...]

By |January 5th, 2018|Sexual Politics & Culture, Uncategorized|0 Comments

Recap 2017: The Year In Sexuality

As we head into the last holiday of 2017, I wanted to send you my year-end sexuality review. This was a doozy! Enjoy the read and the links and let’s bring in 2018 right. We’ve got a world to improve and sexual agency to claim. Join me for Your Best Sexual Year Yet 2018. If [...]

By |December 29th, 2017|Sexual Politics & Culture, Uncategorized|0 Comments

Solstice Blessings & Your Best Sexual Year Yet

  Happy Solstice! Hope your darkest, longest night of the year had you warm, happy and reflective. In true let-the-year-go form, I am sick as a new surfboard on perfect waves. Wish I felt that euphoric. Protect yourself from those germy shopping carts and door handles so you escape the nasty bugs running rampant this [...]

By |December 22nd, 2017|Sexual Growth, Uncategorized|0 Comments