The 6 Most Common Reasons Women Ask for Sexual Support

I thought I’d share some of our preliminary research findings with you because these six things are the focus of so many conversations I have and they are the concerns that are taking up space in so many women’s minds when it comes to sexuality.

By |July 18th, 2014|Getting Unstuck, Sexual Growth|1 Comment

Me and Dan Savage Disagree about Desire

I listened to the show Dan Savage did a couple weeks ago where he addressed a 38-year-old virgin, desire, and romantic matches, and I want to take it from another angle.

The 5 Biggest Fears About Desire

I want to share my observations on the 5 most common fears that I have seen stop people in their tracks when it comes to desire!

It’s time to get off the wall!

Live from the Carolina seashore, I'm talking to you today about the 5 confidence types and the highest expression of your own unique confidence style. Whether you crave the bold expression of the Power Player, the energy of the Warm Connector, the mystique of the Enigma, the humor of the Sassy Skeptic... watch this video [...]

By |March 28th, 2014|Sex and Money, Sexual Growth|5 Comments

The Truth About Confidence

The truth is that it’s very hard, if not impossible, to create the relationship of your dreams from a place of insecurity.

By |March 14th, 2014|Getting Unstuck, Sexual Growth|5 Comments

Confidence in the Boardroom and the Bedroom

It’s so common for people who are confident in the world to clam up or get sheepish about sex…

By |March 7th, 2014|Getting Unstuck, Sexual Growth|0 Comments

5 Reasons Why Most People Lack Sexual Confidence

When I ask people what they most want for their sexual lives, they often say they really want more confidence.

By |February 28th, 2014|Getting Unstuck, Relationships, Sexual Growth|4 Comments

Is Your Avoidance Getting You What You Want?

Avoidance will generally mean that you will not get your needs met or feel seen and heard in a relationship, because it ultimately will require others to read your mind or figure out what is going on without you telling them.

By |January 31st, 2014|Damsel, Relationships, Sexual Growth|4 Comments

Sexual Self-Actualization

Self-actualizers feel themselves safe and cared for, not anxious, accepted, loved, loving, and alive--certainly living a fulfilling life.

By |January 3rd, 2014|Getting Unstuck, Sexual Growth|1 Comment

Sex, Love, and Belonging

Historically speaking, love and belonging are relatively new motivations for sex.

By |December 13th, 2013|Pleasure & Desire, Relationships, Sexual Growth|0 Comments