Sex, Love, and Belonging

Historically speaking, love and belonging are relatively new motivations for sex.

By |December 13th, 2013|Pleasure & Desire, Relationships, Sexual Growth|0 Comments

5 Ways Your Self-Esteem Impacts Your Sexuality

At it’s core, self-esteem is about holding ourselves in esteem—liking oneself. Do you wake up each day and love being you? Do you support you?

By |December 6th, 2013|Getting Unstuck, Relationships|2 Comments

So You Want a Great Relationship?

If you’ve never had a serious relationship with someone else, look at how commitment shows up in your life, or how YOU show up for COMMITMENT.

By |November 15th, 2013|Getting Unstuck, Relationships|0 Comments

When Women "Don’t Like" Other Women

The way I see it, there are three primary reasons why women avoid spending time with other women.

By |November 1st, 2013|Relationships|7 Comments

I’m Coming Out Poly

I think the world is changing. People are questioning the default rules they’ve been living by and are making their own way. People do poly in so many ways.

By |October 18th, 2013|Pleasure & Desire, Relationships|4 Comments

Why "Good Guys Finish Last"

As a sex coach, I’ve been talking to A LOT of amazing, available heterosexual women about what they want in a man over the last several years, and I think it’s high time I talk to you guys about it. I co-wrote Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men nearly 15 years ago to help you out, and I’ve [...]

By |September 6th, 2013|Relationships|0 Comments

How much can you tolerate?

I think that it is really important to look at what you are tolerating.

By |August 16th, 2013|Getting Unstuck, Pleasure & Desire, Relationships|0 Comments

Are you sacrificing sex for your relationship?

Finally, the fifth biggest mistake that couples make about sex is that they settle for whatever they have, thinking it’s normal.

Is your sex life on auto-pilot?

If you've been in a relationship for a while, you might be thinking that just because you love your partner, great sex will automatically happen -- that's how it was at the beginning of the relationship, right?

By |July 19th, 2013|Getting Unstuck, Relationships|0 Comments

Skillful Sexual Communication in Couples

This material is adapted from Amy Jo's free telecall, "The 5 Biggest Mistakes Couples Make When It Comes to Sex... and What to Do About It." For so many years, I have heard stories from people--both men and women about their lost sexual lives, or about the sexual life they never had. I hear a [...]

By |July 12th, 2013|Getting Unstuck, Relationships|0 Comments