“Cheating” is Not a Black and White Affair

Affairs are a common way people are forced to face how they are living and relating.

By |May 26th, 2015|Relationships, Two Column Post Homepage|1 Comment

If Valentine’s Day Were Self-Love Day

As Valentine’s Day approaches, whatever your relationship to this sometimes hated, sometimes beloved holiday, how can you use it as an opportunity for self-love and authentic connection?

By |February 13th, 2015|Relationships, Two Column Post Homepage|0 Comments

Love is an Action

Is love a feeling or an action? Love requires activities that create the conditions that make it possible for it to exist.

By |February 6th, 2015|Relationships|1 Comment

Running Away from Your Sex Life

Travel is awesome and it’s one of my biggest values in life, but a fancy, romantic vacation won’t save your sex life.

By |November 21st, 2014|Getting Unstuck, Relationships|0 Comments

Rebirthing Yourself Out of Loss

There is a simultaneous slowing down and a quiet in a place of loss, and a quickening as life continues to move around and in you, urging you forward into your best self.

By |September 5th, 2014|Getting Unstuck, Relationships|0 Comments

Will You Forsake Your Sexuality for Security?

I speak to women all the time who are facing a major dilemma about how they’ve set up their lives: they have chosen a relationship that makes them feel safe, cared for, stable, and is a good place to raise their children

By |May 9th, 2014|Getting Unstuck, Relationships|0 Comments

What Does Sexual Power Actually Mean?

When there is a shared power that feels healthy and good for both partners in a relationship, you can then have more freedom to play with power sexually. Power is always part of sex.

By |April 11th, 2014|Relationships, Sex and Money|2 Comments

5 Reasons Why Most People Lack Sexual Confidence

When I ask people what they most want for their sexual lives, they often say they really want more confidence.

By |February 28th, 2014|Getting Unstuck, Relationships, Sexual Growth|4 Comments

Soulmate Search: How to Find “The One”

I think there are many potential “ones” and that we find the right one for the right time in our lives and place in our own growth process.

By |February 14th, 2014|Getting Unstuck, Pleasure & Desire, Relationships|1 Comment

Is Your Avoidance Getting You What You Want?

Avoidance will generally mean that you will not get your needs met or feel seen and heard in a relationship, because it ultimately will require others to read your mind or figure out what is going on without you telling them.

By |January 31st, 2014|Damsel, Relationships, Sexual Growth|4 Comments