About Amy Jo Goddard

Amy Jo Goddard earned her Master’s degree in Human Sexuality Education from New York University and has 20+ years of experience in the sexuality field. As a sought after speaker and teacher, Amy Jo travels to colleges, communities, and conferences speaking about sexuality and sexual empowerment. She delivered her TEDx talk “Owning Your Sexual Power” in Napa Valley, was named one of GO! Magazine’s “100 Women We Love” and one of Kinkly’s “100 Sex Blogging Superhereos.” Amy Jo teaches several unique sexual empowerment intensives and offers sexuality retreats, while maintaining a private practice. She is the author of Woman on Fire: Nine Elements to Wake up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power and Sexual Intelligence and coauthor of Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men (Penguin Random House). You can find her online, writing about practical, real-world sexuality and evolved relationships at www.amyjogoddard.com.

Unpacking Santa and Consent

I was walking in Pasadena yesterday and happened upon a local holiday fair, with live music, food, lots of people and a good long line to sit on Santa's lap. I walked by the entryway near the line and saw Mrs. Claus sitting in a chair, but no one was sitting on her lap. For [...]

By |December 4th, 2018|Uncategorized|0 Comments

10 Ways of the Sex-Money Connection: Jumpstart Your Sexual Battery & Fuel Your Financial Prosperity

Do you long for more fulfillment sexually and more freedom financially? Do you feel stuck in patterns of worthiness, deprivation or "not-enoughness" around sex and money? Do you want to own your worth and power in finances and intimacy? Sex and Money Are Undeniably Connected. Sex and money are both born out of our creative [...]

By |December 2nd, 2018|Uncategorized|0 Comments

It’s A Complex Holiday

I am so grateful for the rain that has washed over the west coast. These fires have been devastating to many and sending love to the firefighters who are risking their lives to save lives and homes. I hope you are enjoying your long weekend, however, you are spending it. Th@nksgiving is a complex holiday, [...]

By |November 24th, 2018|Uncategorized|0 Comments

How Does Money Relate To Sexuality?

When we evoke the Fire Woman, we mean from the inside. It's been a very sad week in California with the fires raging in our canyons and so many people have lost their homes. I am sending love and tenderness to so many feeling so much loss. This is the "new abnormal" as our governor [...]

By |November 20th, 2018|Uncategorized|0 Comments

My Birthday, Your Wildness

Last Nov. 9 was my birthday--a much better one than in 2016, the day after the election, possibly one of the most collectively depressing days in recent U.S. history. I'm a words-of-appreciation lover so I do love cards and letters if you feel moved to send me one at moreplease@amyjgoddard.com. Mixed feelings this week as we [...]

By |November 14th, 2018|Uncategorized|0 Comments

Releasing Your Sexual Armor

Hope you had a fun, ghoulish Halloween, or celebration of Day of the Dead. It is a time of year when the veils between the worlds are said to be thin and calling on your ancestors can be particularly powerful. I couldn't help myself and I dressed as a sexy patriot, a suffragette of sorts, [...]

By |November 6th, 2018|Uncategorized|0 Comments

Two Sexual Abuse Operations Have Just Been Exposed

The Tower is falling. Last week two big organizations ostensibly dedicated to sexual evolution and skills building were brought to their knees. There are a lot of fakes--it's too easy to hang a shingle and call yourself a sex coach, sex educator, tantra practitioner or intimacy coach. It boils my blood sometimes. It is upsetting [...]

By |October 29th, 2018|Uncategorized|0 Comments

Healing The Good Girl

I feel revived with hope. Before Fire Woman so much shit was smacking the walls, and the horror show of the Kavanaugh hearings was happening. Then I had the joy of spending three days with the perfect group of women who are ready to build something new inside themselves and to shed all the shrouds [...]

By |October 23rd, 2018|Uncategorized|0 Comments

Boys Will Be Boys

Yesterday felt familiar. It felt like the day in 1991 when I was a senior in college at UCSB and I sat watching the confirmation hearings for Clarence Thomas as Anita Hill was interviewed about the ways he had sexually harassed her. The discussions of porn. The pubic hair on her coke can. I have [...]

By |October 8th, 2018|Uncategorized|0 Comments

I Believe Christine Blasey Ford

At last, women are saying this is enough. Sexual violence will not be ignored or treated as business as usual. We will not stand by and blindly watch a new Supreme Court Justice be confirmed who assaulted a woman, no matter how young he was. That says a lot about who he is and who [...]

By |October 3rd, 2018|Uncategorized|0 Comments