Are you ready to explore your sexuality in a way you never have before?
Do you feel like you have never had the sexual fulfillment, pleasure and orgasms you truly want?
Does your life feel lackluster, like it’s missing the spark that would propel you to a whole new place of living vibrantly and in total freedom?
Do you want deeper intimacy, brighter passion, and more profound connection in your life?
Do you feel disconnected from your body, your pleasure, your sexuality or your core life force?
Sexuality is not a one-size-fits-all by any stretch of the imagination, and yet, everyone has common aspects of our sexual nature that require exploration, understanding and expression. When you work on your sexual self in a deep way, it impacts every other aspect of your life. Then you can begin to live the fully expressed and passionate life you were meant to live, a sexually empowered life.
The Fire Woman program is for you if you want:
to feel more playful, confident and light in your sexuality
to be able to ask for what you want clearly and confidently, without feeling awkward or guilty
to release sexual shame, guilt, trauma and old beliefs that have been holding you back
to prioritize your self-care, pleasure, and joy
to spark your creative energy and vitality
to explore new relationship styles and new erotic playgrounds
to deepen the connection between your sexual and spiritual energy
to be a part of a supportive, sex-positive community of women
to improve your relationships and the joy they bring you
to feel a greater integration between your sexuality and the rest of your life
9 Elements to Wake Up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power & Sexual Intelligence
The 9 elements are Amy Jo’s unique framework of holistic sexual empowerment, as laid out in her book. We explore one element together over a nine month period, meeting at the beginning of the month for a powerful teaching call with Amy Jo in which she lays out the element. Assignments, worksheets and personalized rituals in the weeks in between offer you a guided framework to explore the element in your own sexual life. Then, we close out at the month with a community call for group coaching and Q&A. You will experience a sex-positive community of women who are earnestly doing their self-growth work, ready to support you, witness your process and celebrate your growth.
Excavate and rewrite your inspired sexual story.
Make space for the sexual self you’ve been waiting for.
Release your damaging emotional patterns and open up to having more of what you want.
Radically accept your body.
Activate desire & create a sexual practice.
Give yourself permission & develop your REAL erotic authenticity.
Develop sexual skills & remember how to play.
Build sexual confidence and come home to yourself.
Nurture and increase your dynamic sexual energy.
One element & two classes a month… from anywhere in the world.
Each month we explore a different element of sexual empowerment. On the second Wednesday of the month we meet for our teaching call. Two weeks later, the final Wednesday of the month, we meet by phone/webinar for a community call for support, dialogue and Q&A. All materials are always recorded and made available within 48 hours of each call in our private program portal. You can participate from anywhere in the world by internet or phone–we use Zoom video conferencing platform.
Assignments & exercises keep you on track.
This is not a fluffy, inspiration-filled course that lacks practical application: you will get real assignments, exercises and practical TOOLS to keep you on track as we move through each element. This work is rich and so is the structure that will help you integrate the learnings so that your outcomes are powerful. Our group structure will keep us accountable and the specialized focus on each element allows us to dive deep in between biweekly calls.
Examples of the rituals we go through in the Fire Woman program are:
- A powerful Ritual of Release to let go of the beliefs, stories, relationships and identities you most want to shed in your sexuality
- A luscious Self-Love ritual to deepen your masturbation practice and expand your orgasmic capability
- For partnered women: an intimate Couple’s Reconnection Ritual to give and receive sensual pleasure and deepen the connection
Build community with other women.
What would it do for you to have a community of women with whom you could share your sexual breakthroughs? With whom you could talk honestly about your struggles, celebrations and desires around sexuality? Through a private forum, we foster discussion on the 9 elements and the journey of sexual growth that we are each on. Women bring so many different things to the group and you will see yourself reflected in others, showing you that you are not alone and pushing you towards a greater version of yourself. This is a place where women are in support, and buck old paradigms of competition and scarcity. We raise each other up.
Women most often come to this work in their late 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s and 60s–sometimes earlier and sometimes later but always when the moment is right in their own personal development. You will meet women from all backgrounds and walks of life, and a variety of relationship styles and orientations: straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, queer, married, divorced, dating, single, polyamorous, monogamous, and more!
Some common factors in the women who choose to do this work include:
- the feeling on being on a personal, life-long journey — many women come to this work having already done therapy, coaching, 12 Step, spiritual seeking or other paths
- wanting to overcome longterm patterns of scarcity and deprivation — not only sexually, but also emotionally and financially
- being in a service role and wanting to be able to help others — many Fire Women are also therapists, teachers, nutritionists, social workers, coaches etc. Sometimes, the thing that motivates them to work on their own sexuality is realizing they need to be better equipped when their clients bring up sexual issues.
- being a mother and wanting to model healthy sexuality for one’s kids
- struggling with low libido and confusion about desire
- difficulty with communication in sex and relationships
- wanting to open up more and surrender during sex
- wanting to feel free, empowered and whole
Plus, get these bonuses:
Ultimate Confidence in Sex, Money & Business 6-Part Class
This 6-module audio course is designed for people who want to be more confident in sex and dating and who want that confidence to radiate outwards into other areas of their lives: creative, relational and professional. Real sexual confidence isn’t about trying to meet some ideal of “sexy”; it’s about owning your own distinctive style and maximizing your strengths to take the lead in your intimate relationships and professional life.
Woman On Fire: 9 Elements to Wake Up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power & Sexual Intelligence
In a cultural landscape that defines achievement in terms of the workplace and the family, and that judges women’s worth by superficial standards of beauty, sexuality is often overlooked as an essential piece of women’s power. In Woman on Fire, Amy Jo Goddard lays out her holistic, inside-out approach to sexual empowerment–one that examines sexuality not only in terms of what happens in the bedroom, but through a lens of personal power and the erotic energy that is at our core.
How to Have Your Best Sexual Year Yet
In this virtual workshop & ritual recording, Amy Jo guides you to review the 7 key areas of your sexuality and to set an intention for each one so you can create your best sexual year yet. It’s important to give time to one area of our lives that is often left out of goal-setting: sex! Sexuality, like any other part of your life, flourishes in accordance with the energy you give it. Give to it, it will give back.
1-on-1 Ignite Your Sexuality Call with Lead Coach Leonore Tjia
Get a 20-minute, 1-on-1 Ignite Your Sexuality Call with Leonore to help you set your intentions for the Fire Woman program. We will explore your deepest desires for this work, as well as your current situation and the patterns that have held you back from having what you most want. Leonore’s perceptive and compassionate guidance will assist you in starting the program with confidence and clarity.
Ticket to the Fire Woman Live Event (Fall 2017)
Come be nourished at a luscious, private in-person Fire Woman Live Event in southern California, fall 2017! Building on the work we have done together in the virtual container, the Fire Woman live event will be an experiential dive into the 9 elements. You will meet the women face-to-face who have been with you in this work and have time to learn from Amy Jo in person. You will walk away juiced up, enlivened, and inspired by our community of Fire Women.
PLUS Bring a Friend to the Fire Woman Live Event (Fall 2017)
Bring a sister, daughter, or friend to the Fire Woman Live Event in southern California, fall 2017! This work flourishes in community. We are creating a group of on-fire women who celebrate and support one another.
Who is the Fire Woman?
She knows this is important work. She’s no stranger to self-transformation–whether through therapy, coaching, 12 Step, spiritual seeking or other paths of personal development, she knows she is on a life journey and values each step that has brought her to where she is now. Now she’s ready to honor her sexuality in a deeper way.
She is ready for change. Ready to let go of old hurts she may have carried for a long time, or that may be woven into her family line and herstory. She’s ready to bust through old patterns. An urgency drives her–to heal wounds, to release what needs to be released, to change her experiences of sexuality, relationships and intimacy in a deep way. She knows that much more awaits her.
She wants MORE! She feels the call of her sexual self within her and longs to express the pleasure, ecstasy and power within. She wants to find and release her sexual voice, to ask for what she wants from a place of assurance and ease. She knows this would radically change her experience in relationships. She knows her sexuality is a source of her power. She wants to find the missing piece and integrate it into who she is in the world.
What This Program Is
The Fire Woman virtual coaching program is a 9-month curriculum based on Amy Jo’s groundbreaking book Woman On Fire: 9 Elements to Wake Up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power and Sexual Intelligence (2015). In this 9-month program, you have the opportunity to deeply explore your sexuality with Amy Jo’s guidance and the support of our vibrant community of women. It’s one thing to read a book. It’s another thing to have the author herself teach you the concepts live and be available to answer every question you have, coaching you personally to help you grow. This is a phenomenal opportunity to work with a master teacher who has been a leader in the field of sexuality for over 20 years.
This is a group program that meets live twice a month by webinar/phone, with rich community discussion in a private Forum and self-directed exercises and worksheets in between calls that build on one another to help you evolve yourself as a whole human being. The group discussion is rich, thoughtful and heartfelt.
This work is for women who are eager and excited to make this commitment to growing their sexuality, and who are ready to dive deep into this transformational work. This is a program for women who are an enthusiastic “YES” to more pleasure, intimacy, desire, passion and greater wholeness as sexual people. This is for women who have accomplished a lot and yet, have never taken the time to fully explore, celebrate, heal and empower their sexuality. This is for women who want to love their bodies more and live more pleasurable lives. Adult women of all ages, backgrounds, relationship styles, sexual orientations and identities are welcome! We honor the diversity of our community and all women-identified people in this program.
What This Program Is Not
Fire Woman is a group coaching program—it is not professional therapy. Amy Jo is a sexual empowerment expert with professional training in sexuality education. The work we do is very different from therapy. If you are seeking a therapist who can help you with your sexuality, check out the AASECT directory of licensed professionals.
This is deep and transformational work that includes excavating and releasing old wounds, beliefs, shame, guilt and trauma. We understand that many women have had experiences of boundary violation, assault, and/or abuse and we believe that healing work is an essential part of holistic sexual empowerment. However, our intensive programs are usually not the best fit for women who are in the immediate aftermath of a recent trauma or assault experience, as the work itself may trigger things that are not helpful if you are in a raw place around a violation.
We support women to work through their healing process at their own pace. Ultimately, it’s your decision if you are ready to dive into this work. If you would like to speak to a program coordinator before making the decision, we invite you to book a complimentary call to talk with us.
Some of Amy Jo’s programs are open to people of all genders, but the Fire Woman virtual coaching program is designed for women only (however you came by that identity; we welcome women of trans experience into our community). If you do not identify as a woman but you would like to do some work with Amy Jo in the immediate future, check out her Going All the Way: Sex and Money virtual program or her Bringing Sexy Back: How to Reenergize Your Sexual Energy and Revitalize Your Sex Life COUPLES program.
Fire Woman does not automatically include 1-on-1 coaching; upgrades to private coaching are limited and based on our coaches’ availability. Many women develop best with a combination of both one-to-one and group work. If you think some private work would benefit you and you understand that this is a 4-5 figure commitment, you can apply for a coaching package. A program coordinator will talk to you to assess whether we are a good fit to work together privately.
This is unusual work that not many people will ever do on themselves. It’s a magnificent and sometimes scary journey to embark upon. The truth is that EVERYONE needs support for their sexuality and few will ever reach out to get it. If you’ve read this far, you are right for this work. You found it for a reason.
To take your sexuality seriously enough to invest in growing it just as you would any other part of yourself is an advanced move. Just like you would pay a personal trainer or a doctor to help you with your physical well-being and fitness, and just like you would invest in a therapist to help you with your mental health, you can invest in professional support to help you with one of the most personal, confusing, and important parts of who you are: your sexuality. This is where it’s at.
We thrive on helping people develop from the inside out, say the things they’ve never said, break through the parts of themselves that feel broken and ashamed, and reconnect the parts that might feel lost. You are a sexual being from the moment you come into the world. Come on in, and let’s take a closer look. It’s fun, it’s revealing, it’s vulnerable, it’s exciting, it’s enthralling, it’s challenging and it’s time.
About Team iSexy
As a team, we are dedicated to helping women break through the barriers that hold them back from having the sexual and relational fulfillment they desire. We acknowledge sexuality as an important and natural part of people’s lives – a site where our personal growth has incredible potential. We see sexuality as holistically connected to health, happiness, self-concept, and human fulfillment. We embrace an intersectional feminist perspective that respects sexual and cultural diversity and encourage people to learn from multiple perspectives, especially in relation to sexuality.
Our programs offer women the chance to feel seen and heard, space to discuss and get underneath the surface, coaching and support to see blind spots and move past them in order to put to bed all that is negative and unproductive about sexuality, relationships and intimacy.
We are committed to supporting the women in our programs and grateful to have the opportunity. We will have fun, laugh, celebrate, feel, move, deepen and empower ourselves. We come prepared, excited, ready and 100% present.
If you’re feeling out whether the Fire Woman program is the right fit for you, our team of skilled program coordinators is available to help you make the decision. There’s no cost for the call and no pressure to buy (if we don’t think it’s a good fit, we’ll recommend something else). Ready to talk? Click here to book a complimentary call.
You cannot be fully in your personal power without your sexuality. You must bring it with you. A world of WOMEN who are ON FIRE is a changed world, a powerful world, an unstoppable world. We are committed to creating that world, one empowered woman at a time.