Are you ready to explore your sexuality in a way you never have before?

Do you feel like you have never had the sexual fulfillment, pleasure and orgasms you truly want?

Does your life feel lackluster, like it’s missing the spark that would propel you to a whole new place of living vibrantly and in total freedom?

Do you want deeper intimacy, brighter passion, and more profound connection in your life?

Do you feel disconnected from your body, your pleasure, your sexuality or your core life force?

Sexuality is not a one-size-fits-all by any stretch of the imagination, and yet, everyone has common aspects of our sexual nature that require exploration, understanding and expression. When you work on your sexual self in a deep way, it impacts every other aspect of your life. Then you can begin to live the fully expressed and passionate life you were meant to live, a sexually empowered life.

Based on the tenets of her groundbreaking book Woman On Fire: 9 Elements to Wake Up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power and Sexual Intelligence (Penguin Random House), Fire Woman is Amy Jo Goddard’s unique flagship program: designed to help you look at all facets of your sexual life in order to heal and create the new sexual life and expression you most want. With Amy Jo’s expert guidance and in the safe environment of this 9-month experiential virtual program, you will explore the 9 elements of your sexuality and come home to your sexual self.

The Fire Woman program is for you if you want:

  • to feel more playful, confident and light in your sexuality

  • to be able to ask for what you want clearly and confidently, without feeling awkward or guilty

  • to release sexual shame, guilt, trauma and old beliefs that have been holding you back

  • to prioritize your self-care, pleasure, and joy

  • to spark your creative energy and vitality

  • to explore new relationship styles and new erotic playgrounds

  • to deepen the connection between your sexual and spiritual energy

  • to be a part of a supportive, sex-positive community of women

  • to improve your relationships and the joy they bring you

  • to feel a greater integration between your sexuality and the rest of your life

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9 Elements to Wake Up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power & Sexual Intelligence

The 9 elements are Amy Jo’s unique framework of holistic sexual empowerment, as laid out in her book. We explore one element together over a nine month period, meeting at the beginning of the month for a powerful teaching call with Amy Jo in which she lays out the element. Assignments, worksheets and personalized rituals in the weeks in between offer you a guided framework to explore the element in your own sexual life. Then, we close out at the month with a community call for group coaching and Q&A. You will experience a sex-positive community of women who are earnestly doing their self-growth work, ready to support you, witness your process and celebrate your growth.


Excavate and rewrite your inspired sexual story.


Make space for the sexual self you’ve been waiting for.


Release your damaging emotional patterns and open up to having more of what you want.


Radically accept your body.

Activate desire & create a sexual practice.


Give yourself permission & develop your REAL erotic authenticity.


Develop sexual skills & remember how to play.


Build sexual confidence and come home to yourself.


Nurture and increase your dynamic sexual energy.

One element & two classes a month… from anywhere in the world.

ProgramPortalEach month we explore a different element of sexual empowerment. On the second Wednesday of the month we meet for our teaching call. Two weeks later, the final Wednesday of the month, we meet by phone/webinar for a community call for support, dialogue and Q&A. All materials are always recorded and made available within 48 hours of each call in our private program portal. You can participate from anywhere in the world by internet or phone–we use Zoom video conferencing platform.


Assignments & exercises keep you on track.

This is not a fluffy, inspiration-filled course that lacks practical application: you will get real assignments, exercises and practical TOOLS to keep you on track as we move through each element. This work is rich and so is the structure that will help you integrate the learnings so that your outcomes are powerful. Our group structure will keep us accountable and the specialized focus on each element allows us to dive deep in between biweekly calls.

Examples of the rituals we go through in the Fire Woman program are:

  • A powerful Ritual of Release to let go of the beliefs, stories, relationships and identities you most want to shed in your sexuality
  • A luscious Self-Love ritual to deepen your masturbation practice and expand your orgasmic capability
  • For partnered women: an intimate Couple’s Reconnection Ritual to give and receive sensual pleasure and deepen the connection

Build community with other women.

What would it do for you to have a community of women with whom you could share your sexual breakthroughs? With whom you could talk honestly about your struggles, celebrations and desires around sexuality? Through a private forum, we foster discussion on the 9 elements and the journey of sexual growth that we are each on. Women bring so many different things to the group and you will see yourself reflected in others, showing you that you are not alone and pushing you towards a greater version of yourself. This is a place where women are in support, and buck old paradigms of competition and scarcity. We raise each other up.

Women most often come to this work in their late 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s and 60s–sometimes earlier and sometimes later but always when the moment is right in their own personal development. You will meet women from all backgrounds and walks of life, and a variety of relationship styles and orientations: straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, queer, married, divorced, dating, single, polyamorous, monogamous, and more!

Some common factors in the women who choose to do this work include:

  • the feeling on being on a personal, life-long journey — many women come to this work having already done therapy, coaching, 12 Step, spiritual seeking or other paths
  • wanting to overcome longterm patterns of scarcity and deprivation — not only sexually, but also emotionally and financially
  • being in a service role and wanting to be able to help others — many Fire Women are also therapists, teachers, nutritionists, social workers, coaches etc. Sometimes, the thing that motivates them to work on their own sexuality is realizing they need to be better equipped when their clients bring up sexual issues.
  • being a mother and wanting to model healthy sexuality for one’s kids
  • struggling with low libido and confusion about desire
  • difficulty with communication in sex and relationships
  • wanting to open up more and surrender during sex
  • wanting to feel free, empowered and whole

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Plus, get these bonuses:


Ultimate Confidence in Sex, Money & Business 6-Part Class
Value: $597

This 6-module audio course is designed for people who want to be more confident in sex and dating and who want that confidence to radiate outwards into other areas of their lives: creative, relational and professional. Real sexual confidence isn’t about trying to meet some ideal of “sexy”; it’s about owning your own distinctive style and maximizing your strengths to take the lead in your intimate relationships and professional life.

Woman On Fire: 9 Elements to Wake Up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power & Sexual Intelligence

In a cultural landscape that defines achievement in terms of the workplace and the family, and that judges women’s worth by superficial standards of beauty, sexuality is often overlooked as an essential piece of women’s power. In Woman on Fire, Amy Jo Goddard lays out her holistic, inside-out approach to sexual empowerment–one that examines sexuality not only in terms of what happens in the bedroom, but through a lens of personal power and the erotic energy that is at our core.


How to Have Your Best Sexual Year Yet
Value: $57

In this virtual workshop & ritual recording, Amy Jo guides you to review the 7 key areas of your sexuality and to set an intention for each one so you can create your best sexual year yet. It’s important to give time to one area of our lives that is often left out of goal-setting: sex! Sexuality, like any other part of your life, flourishes in accordance with the energy you give it. Give to it, it will give back.

1-on-1 Ignite Your Sexuality Call with Amy Jo
Value: $300

Get a 20-minute, 1-on-1 Ignite Your Sexuality Call with Amy Jo to help you set your intentions for the Fire Woman program. We will explore your deepest desires for this work, as well as your current situation and the patterns that have held you back from having what you most want. Amy Jo’s perceptive and compassionate guidance will assist you in starting the program with confidence and clarity.

Ticket to the Fire Woman Live Event (Fall 2018)
Value: $697

Come be nourished at a luscious, private in-person Fire Woman Live Event in southern California, fall 2018! Building on the work we have done together in the virtual container, the Fire Woman live event will be an experiential dive into the 9 elements. You will meet the women face-to-face who have been with you in this work and have time to learn from Amy Jo in person. You will walk away juiced up, enlivened, and inspired by our community of Fire Women.

PLUS Bring a Friend to the Fire Woman Live Event (Fall 2018)
Value: $697

Bring a sister, daughter, or friend to the Fire Woman Live Event in southern California, fall 2018! This work flourishes in community. We are creating a group of on-fire women who celebrate and support one another.

“Fire Woman offered me an empowering and supportive space for curiosity, power, and exploration. Before this program, I had no other place for these conversations. “

JackieJones“I feel really grateful for a space that has normalized things that were in shadow for me. Fire Woman offered me an empowering and supportive space for curiosity, power, and exploration. Before this program, I had no other place for these conversations. What a relief to be able to speak openly and honestly in such a safe place about these very private wonderings and desires! Sharing a journey with other women allowed me to see that I wasn’t alone in my desire to want to experience greater sexual power and pleasure and to release any remaining shame that was holding me back. 

Amy Jo’s program surprised me in the depth of growth that I experienced. Not only did I explore and expand my sexual self, but I also felt tremendous shifts and deepening in my spiritual self as these two parts of me came into liberating and intense alignment.  The synergy, and mutual respect of these two parts of me coming together feels crazy erotic in ways I didn’t know would be erotic at all. Everything inside of me has grown and become more spacious.  I’m so amazed by that.  I’m so grateful to have had this sacred space, the company, the encouragement, and the modeling of very powerful women and teachers to learn from on my path.”

– Jackie

Who is the Fire Woman?

Screen Shot 2017-02-25 at 3.58.49 PMShe knows this is important work. She’s no stranger to self-transformation–whether through therapy, coaching, 12 Step, spiritual seeking or other paths of personal development, she knows she is on a life journey and values each step that has brought her to where she is now. Now she’s ready to honor her sexuality in a deeper way.

She is ready for change. Ready to let go of old hurts she may have carried for a long time, or that may be woven into her family line and herstory. She’s ready to bust through old patterns. An urgency drives her–to heal wounds, to release what needs to be released, to change her experiences of sexuality, relationships and intimacy in a deep way. She knows that much more awaits her.

She wants MORE! She feels the call of her sexual self within her and longs to express the pleasure, ecstasy and power within. She wants to find and release her sexual voice, to ask for what she wants from a place of assurance and ease. She knows this would radically change her experience in relationships. She knows her sexuality is a source of her power. She wants to find the missing piece and integrate it into who she is in the world.

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What Women Are Saying…

“When I signed up for this course, I was really close to saying “well f*$k it, I’m just broken. Now the path for me to move forward as a sexual person is totally open.”

KatGibson“I have so much gratitude for the deep, open, vulnerable sharing that happened during this program. It gave me permission to look a little more closely at where I’m holding similar stories. There was such a resonance of what was shared. It really was through that process of sharing and talking, that I’ve been given more breathing room, more space to be myself.

Before I joined this program there were blocks inhibiting the expression and flow of my sexual energy. I wanted to tap into my creative potential, and get out of the internalized judgment that was holding me back. I have a come a long way through this work–now I know when I am making decisions that reflect me leaving myself.

If I hadn’t joined this program, I wouldn’t be having the amazing orgasms I’m having right now, and I would be much more disconnected from my body. There has been a ton of expansion in the pleasure I experience in my body, and I have been able to reconnect with parts of my sexuality that I put aside in the past.”

– Kat G, Founder of

Screen Shot 2017-03-20 at 2.36.52 PM“When I signed up for this course, I was really close to saying “well f*$k it, I’m just broken.” It was such a leap of faith for me to join. I felt so empowered in my life in so many ways, yet my sexuality was just an area in which I thought I was broken. But there was a place in me that knew that wasn’t the way it was supposed to be. There was so much knowledge that I had in my head, but I couldn’t apply it to myself. There was so much shame around it, so much tension in my marriage.

After doing this course, I feel that all of that has cleared away. The path for me to move forward as a sexual person is totally open. I’m so grateful for this work. My marriage is better than it’s ever been, and I’ve been married for over 20 years! This work is brave, and bold, and it’s life changing. I’m filled with gratitude for what has happened to me over the last 9 months.”

– Cherie

What This Program Is

The Fire Woman virtual coaching program is a 9-month curriculum based on Amy Jo’s groundbreaking book Woman On Fire: 9 Elements to Wake Up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power and Sexual Intelligence (2015). In this 9-month program, you have the opportunity to deeply explore your sexuality with Amy Jo’s guidance and the support of our vibrant community of women. It’s one thing to read a book. It’s another thing to have the author herself teach you the concepts live and be available to answer every question you have, coaching you personally to help you grow. This is a phenomenal opportunity to work with a master teacher who has been a leader in the field of sexuality for over 20 years.

This is a group program that meets live twice a month by webinar/phone, with rich community discussion in a private Forum and self-directed exercises and worksheets in between calls that build on one another to help you evolve yourself as a whole human being. The group discussion is rich, thoughtful and heartfelt.

This work is for women who are eager and excited to make this commitment to growing their sexuality, and who are ready to dive deep into this transformational work. This is a program for women who are an enthusiastic “YES” to more pleasure, intimacy, desire, passion and greater wholeness as sexual people. This is for women who have accomplished a lot and yet, have never taken the time to fully explore, celebrate, heal and empower their sexuality. This is for women who want to love their bodies more and live more pleasurable lives. Adult women of all ages, backgrounds, relationship styles, sexual orientations and identities are welcome! We honor the diversity of our community and all women-identified people in this program.

What This Program Is Not

AudreLorde_Fire Fire Woman is a group coaching program—it is not professional therapy. Amy Jo is a sexual empowerment expert with professional training in sexuality education. The work we do is very different from therapy. If you are seeking a therapist who can help you with your sexuality, check out the AASECT directory of licensed professionals.

This is deep and transformational work that includes excavating and releasing old wounds, beliefs, shame, guilt and trauma. We understand that many women have had experiences of boundary violation, assault, and/or abuse and we believe that healing work is an essential part of holistic sexual empowerment. However, our intensive programs are usually not the best fit for women who are in the immediate aftermath of a recent trauma or assault experience, as the work itself may trigger things that are not helpful if you are in a raw place around a violation.

We support women to work through their healing process at their own pace. Ultimately, it’s your decision if you are ready to dive into this work. If you would like to speak to a program coordinator before making the decision, we invite you to book a complimentary call to talk with us.

Some of Amy Jo’s programs are open to people of all genders, but the Fire Woman virtual coaching program is designed for women only (however you came by that identity; we welcome women of trans experience into our community). If you do not identify as a woman but you would like to do some work with Amy Jo in the immediate future, check out her Going All the Way: Sex and Money virtual program or her Bringing Sexy Back: How to Reenergize Your Sexual Energy and Revitalize Your Sex Life COUPLES program.
Fire Woman does not automatically include 1-on-1 coaching; upgrades to private coaching are limited and based on our coaches’ availability. Many women develop best with a combination of both one-to-one and group work. If you think some private work would benefit you and you understand that this is a 4-5 figure commitment, you can apply for a coaching package. A program coordinator will talk to you to assess whether we are a good fit to work together privately.

“This work has given me a chance to work on all facets of myself, my voice, my feelings toward my body, my desire, my emotions, all of it!”

Screen Shot 2017-03-20 at 3.39.19 PM“I have always lived my life from a place of shame and guilt. I’ve had this ingrown sense of not belonging, of being on the outside looking in, which never left me space for acknowledging my sexuality at all. This work has given me a chance to work on all facets of myself, my voice, my feelings toward my body, my desire, my emotions, all of it! I’ve been able to focus on myself, and it’s given me the ability to see myself as a sexual being. This work has really helped me so much.”


“Going through a divorce after 25 years of marriage, I thought it would take me years to attract the kind of partner I really wanted. But I decided to do this program and commit myself fully to this process. The work I’ve done on myself through this course, to understand my body and build my sexual energy, has been revolutionary and I found an incredible lover. Understanding that I am in charge of my orgasm, and being able to attract a skilled lover, has been huge. I find amazing release in my orgasms now, an incredible expansiveness in pleasure and sex that I did not think was possible for me — but at age 44 I found it and I’m so grateful.”

– Jill

“Amy Jo, I would say you are a very gifted woman to be able to see such a wide spread “big picture” phenomenon affecting millions of women… then put something together to break down the pieces into small digestible parts so that we can all understand them. Then you offer simple steps to help women come to grips with how they process each part and empower us to make a change if we so wish to. This program will change and I’m sure has changed women lives in such a powerful way.”

– Anna

“I have come a long way this year. I feel at home with who I am! I still want more fun with sex but we are exploring and not being lazy, so that’s good, and those doing the courses with you are given a lot of opportunities to ask for advice. The ideas and motivation from the group has been awesome. Changing patterns and old habits has been a huge change this year. Thank you, I am so glad I invested in this program, awesome!”



WomanInFieldThis is unusual work that not many people will ever do on themselves. It’s a magnificent and sometimes scary journey to embark upon. The truth is that EVERYONE needs support for their sexuality and few will ever reach out to get it. If you’ve read this far, you are right for this work. You found it for a reason.

To take your sexuality seriously enough to invest in growing it just as you would any other part of yourself is an advanced move. Just like you would pay a personal trainer or a doctor to help you with your physical well-being and fitness, and just like you would invest in a therapist to help you with your mental health, you can invest in professional support to help you with one of the most personal, confusing, and important parts of who you are: your sexuality. This is where it’s at.

We thrive on helping people develop from the inside out, say the things they’ve never said, break through the parts of themselves that feel broken and ashamed, and reconnect the parts that might feel lost. You are a sexual being from the moment you come into the world. Come on in, and let’s take a closer look. It’s fun, it’s revealing, it’s vulnerable, it’s exciting, it’s enthralling, it’s challenging and it’s time.

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“Amy Jo Goddard has made the study and practice of sexual empowerment her life’s work.”

Woman on Fire is a compassionate, loving, and tender guide that will assist all women in owning and operating the life force that is our erotic energy and sexual intelligence.

-Dr. Christiane Northrup, MD, author of Women’s Bodies, Women’s Wisdom

AJBettyphotoshopped_small “Amy Jo is an experienced sexuality coach who has lived with women through the rocky and rewarding terrain of exploring their sexual trauma and suppression and reclaiming their true sexual power and pleasure. As someone who has also been privileged to travel this terrain with women, I love Amy Jo’s easy way with ALL of who we are as women—never losing sight of how much our own sexual liberation will lead to our joy and success in life.”
– Dr. Rachel Carlton Abrams, MD, author of The Multi-Orgasmic Woman

AJBettyphotoshopped_small “My long-term friend and colleague Amy Jo Goddard offers powerful guidelines to expand women’s sex lives so we can become decisive orgasmic women who are able to state our pleasure and get what we want—from the bedroom to the boardroom.”

-Betty Dodson, sexual pioneer, fine artist and author of Sex for One

Screen Shot 2017-03-22 at 2.53.23 PM“Amy Jo Goddard has made the study and practice of sexual empowerment her life’s work so she can be of service to everyone wounded by lack of support, knowledge, and access to desire and consent. Read Woman on Fire for the building blocks to your own wild, sex-positive, and empowered life.”
– Dr. Carol Queen, sexologist and author of Real Live Nude Girl: Chronicles of Sex-Positive Culture

About Team iSexy

As a team, we are dedicated to helping women break through the barriers that hold them back from having the sexual and relational fulfillment they desire. We acknowledge sexuality as an important and natural part of people’s lives – a site where our personal growth has incredible potential. We see sexuality as holistically connected to health, happiness, self-concept, and human fulfillment. We embrace an intersectional feminist perspective that respects sexual and cultural diversity and encourage people to learn from multiple perspectives, especially in relation to sexuality.

Our programs offer women the chance to feel seen and heard, space to discuss and get underneath the surface, coaching and support to see blind spots and move past them in order to put to bed all that is negative and unproductive about sexuality, relationships and intimacy.

We are committed to supporting the women in our programs and grateful to have the opportunity. We will have fun, laugh, celebrate, feel, move, deepen and empower ourselves. We come prepared, excited, ready and 100% present.

If you’re feeling out whether the Fire Woman program is the right fit for you, our team of skilled program coordinators is available to help you make the decision. There’s no cost for the call and no pressure to buy (if we don’t think it’s a good fit, we’ll recommend something else). Ready to talk? Click here to book a complimentary call.

You cannot be fully in your personal power without your sexuality. You must bring it with you. A world of WOMEN who are ON FIRE is a changed world, a powerful world, an unstoppable world. We are committed to creating that world, one empowered woman at a time.

“Finally a framework that broadens our horizons by redefining our own relationship to sexuality to encompass how we think, feel, interact, heal, walk on this earth, live in our body and orgasm.”

Screen Shot 2016-04-25 at 1.03.50 PM“We’ve defended, gone mute, shut down, given up and settled for far less and Amy Jo Goddard, expert educator in the field of sexuality, is out to change this. Finally a framework that broadens our horizons by redefining our own relationship to sexuality to encompass how we think, feel, interact, heal, walk on this earth, live in our body and orgasm. Her book Woman on Fire is a daring pathway through explicit barriers, including culturally, giving us permission to be freed up on our own terms while respecting our individual boundaries as well.

Working with women’s empowerment for over three decades myself, Amy Jo’s fine-tuned wisdom has the ability to not only change lives but the world because the suppression of our sexual power was intentional. Take back what is yours to own (even with play) and chains of internal oppression break away. Woman on Fire is a torch for our vital empowerment inviting us not to give up but to give way to our most precious desires. Yes!”

– ALisa Starkweather, founder of the Red Tent Temple Movement and Women in Power