Most of us experience fumbly, awkward, unsexy early ventures into the forays of sexual pleasuring with a partner. I certainly did. In a culture like ours, where we place so little emphasis on teaching sex education, we are all left to stumble about and try to figure...
For so many years, I have heard stories from people–both men and women about their lost sexual lives, or about the sexual life they never had. I hear a lot of pain, sadness and a real loss in these stories. I hear from a lot of people who have been in long-term...
I’ve been talking to a lot of people lately who say it feels like they’re watching their sex lives just flatline, and they don’t know what they can do to change it. I’ve actually identified 6 key reasons why this can happen, and I want to share...
This material is adapted from Amy Jo’s class, “The 5 Biggest Mistakes Couples Make When It Comes to Sex… and What to Do About It.” Read parts 1, 2, 3 & 4 Finally, the fifth biggest mistake that couples make about sex is that they settle for...
Believe it or not, I wrote my Master’s thesis on the connection between masturbation (attitudes and practices) and self-esteem and body image. No doubt there are many connections between these parts of our sexuality, and they play out in so many ways in people’s...
Someone told me recently that having a women’s weekend called “Sex-Money-Power” sounds masculine. When I probed further, they said “power” is more of a man’s word and that women don’t really relate to it. I’ve been chewing on that idea and continuing to have...
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