After surveying hundreds of couples about the biggest sexual challenges they face, here’s what I’ve heard:

WomanBackBSB“We don’t communicate about sex because of his lower libido; I’m afraid of bringing it up because it might make him feel pressured and thus turned off.”

We are both overworked and overwhelmed at work. At night we just snuggle up in bed and fall asleep!”

I’d like to have a building passion during intercourse. I just get distracted and bored and really go somewhere else during it.”

“We’ve been together for over a decade. I would like to return to the emotional closeness and intimacy that characterized our relationship in the beginning.”

We are always in the mood at opposite times it seems. And I’m rarely in the mood these days; I have trouble getting out of my head and completely immersing myself in the act.”

“Between kids, aging parents, pets and businesses that need to be taken care of, our time is in short supply. We want more frequent sex and the time and space to be intimate again.”

“My husband has difficulty with orgasm and erections. We’re an older middle aged couple with physical issues that affect the sex. I would like us to be able to enjoy together the entire sexual act.”

So many things get in the way of having the sexual life you desire:


It doesn’t have to be that way.

You absolutely can revitalize the relationship and rekindle the sexual spark.

But it doesn’t happen magically.

Hi, I’m Amy Jo Goddard — sexual empowerment expert, author and speaker.

Amy_Jo-295_HighResI earned a Masters degree in Human Sexuality Education, have worked in the sexuality field for over 20 years, and have written two highly praised and successful books: Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men and Woman On Fire: 9 Elements to Wake Up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power and Sexual Intelligence. In my sexual empowerment workshops and coaching programs I’ve helped thousands of people create the fulfilling sexual lives and relationships they most desire.

I believe that healthy, non-violent relationships are key to changing the world–one person at a time.

“This work has planted a seed for play, and pleasure, and desire for me that will unfold for a long time.”

“When we started working together, I was really at a loss about my own desire. I was in a huge frustrated place, especially in my marriage: I didn’t know where to turn.

Amy Jo is a great listener and is really insightful; she really knows how to meet people where they areGoing into this, my fear was whether I trusted myself. There were several things I hesitated about, but I’ve got them all. I started to see some things I desire sexually that I didn’t know about and new things I was able to describe. We played out one of the fantasies I mentioned–it was really fun, made us laugh a lot and we got the chance to show ourselves in a new way. This work has planted a seed for play, and pleasure, and desire for me that will unfold for a long time. I’m bringing it in and designing my life so I can have some play!”

– Michelle Andersen

This Is For You If:

  • You are in a longterm relationship that has lost its sexual spark

  • Libido issues have caused tension in your sexual relationship

  • You feel overworked and overwhelmed, and sex is no longer a priority

  • You find yourself “checking out” during sex and want to be more present

  • Physical issues (illness, injury, aging) have made sex difficult

  • It feels tough to communicate about sexual issues in the relationship without one or both people shutting down, feeling awkward, or getting scared

Are You Ready to Bring Sexy Back?

I believe that the more whole we are as sexual beings, the more fulfilled we are as human beings. When you work on your sexuality it improves your personal happiness, the connection and intimacy in your relationships, and your overall creativity and fulfillment.

Most people never get quality education about how to have good sex and relationships, and yet these two things determine so much about our happiness and well-being. However, they are rarely taught or modeled effectively! The good news is that they are skill sets you can learn and practice–and significantly improve your life, sexual satisfaction and your happiness in relationships.

Screen Shot 2017-02-06 at 10.35.43 PMTalk About Sex Without Feeling Awkward

Let go of the fear of rejection, the doubt and insecurity that stymie open communication. Create an ecosystem in the relationship that supports you to both be honest and open about your needs and desires. This alone can revolutionize a relationship.

Screen Shot 2017-02-06 at 10.28.46 PMGet Out of Your Head and Into Your Body

Learn to be more present during sex so you can have more pleasure, ease and connection with your partner — and not be thinking about your to do list.

Screen Shot 2017-02-06 at 10.28.03 PMHeal What You Need to Heal

If illness, injury, or relationship issues–including infidelity or porn–have created rifts in the relationship, heal what you need to heal in order to restore your connection and intimacy.

Screen Shot 2017-02-07 at 12.58.48 PMLearn New Sexual Skills

Expand your sexual toolbox with new techniques and practices that give you and your partner more to explore together. Break out of routine and get in touch with the new things you want to dive into together. It’s endless!

KissMeAgainReignite Your Spark

Turn up the heat with a boost of sexual energy that helps your erotic relationship flourish. Rediscover one another as sexual partners and playmates.


Achieve Work/Sex/Life Balance

Learn to balance your life, work and family responsibilities so that sexuality continues to be a priority. Integrate the learning with daily, weekly and monthly practices and rituals that keep your connection front and center.


Bringing Sexy Back: How to Recharge Your Sexual Energy & Revitalize Your Relationship

A 6 Part Class for Couples with Amy Jo Goddard

  • Revitalize the sexual spark in your relationship

  • Have more frequent sex, deeper pleasure and more satisfying orgasms

  • Have delicious space in your life to relax and enjoy sexual play — free from the responsibilities of work, kids and family

  • Be more present during sex

  • Explore new sexual realms together with your lover

  • Communicate openly and honestly about your sexual needs and desires

  • Have more intimacy, seduction and romance with your partner



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How It Works

  • Six live sessions taught by webinar, starting February 28th

  • Homefun assignments and worksheets to do with your partner

  • All sessions and materials recorded and posted within 48 hours in case you can’t attend live

  • Live Q&A time with Amy Jo to get your questions answered

PLUS, get this bonuses when you register:

  • My “Strategies & Scripts for Having Difficult Conversations” — this alone is worth the price of the class!

Times & Dates of Live Sessions:

Class One: Tending to the Sexual Ecosystem
Tuesday February 28 at 5pm PST/8pm EST

Class Two: Communicating Sexual Needs
Tuesday March 7 at 5pm PST/8pm EST

Class Three: Creating Sexual Adventure
Tuesday March 14 at 5pm PST/8pm EST

Class Four: Addressing the Sexual Drain
Tuesday March 21 at 5pm PST/8pm EST

Class Five: Bringing More Sexy
Tuesday March 28at 5pm PST/8pm EST

Class Six: Active Engagement & Integration
Tuesday April 4 at 5pm PST/8pm EST

Frequently Asked Questions

What if I can’t make a class live?

All classes will be recorded and housed in a special portal for this class. You will have access to the recordings to listen to when you can, and more than once if you choose. Some people can’t make all of the classes live, we understand that sometimes you’ll need to listen in later. We encourage all participants to come onto the classes live as much as possible.

What if I don’t have the money?

There is a sliding scale investment structure that makes it possible for couples to take the course at all levels of contribution. If you cannot pay the full investment of $337/month you can join the restricted income level for $267/month. Note that this is a six week course and if you choose the monthly payment plan, you will be billed over 3 months. 

How long is each class?

We recommend you set aside 90 minutes — some may be closer to 75. Most classes will include time for live Q&A.

Class Tuition

Full Tuition

$337monthly - per couple
  • 3 payments of $337 covers the cost of producing the class and supports participants who can only join at the lowest ends of the sliding scale.

Restricted Income

$267monthly - per couple
  • We offer a restricted income level to couples unable to pay the full investment.


$99monthly - per couple
  • We offer limited number of partial scholarships to people at the hardship level in order to make the class accessible for $99/month.

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Before I began this work I was in such a deep, dark hole when it came to sex. It hadn’t always been that way but I couldn’Screen Shot 2016-04-25 at 1.05.51 PMt understand how I got there and I had no idea how to dig myself out. Just the mention or thought of sex would send me into a downward spiral of anxiety, guilt, shame and hopelessness. Amy Jo’s teachings have been invaluable, along with the community of women who I could talk to and learn from. This work has liberated me from the huge weight that had been stifling my sexuality for years. I now have the language to talk about what’s going on and the tools and confidence to grow!”

– Michelle, Your Sexually Empowered Life 2014 participant

“I’m perpetually blown away by the intellect and insight that Amy Jo Goddard possesses, into all aspects of human sexuality. She is the ultimate source for personal and intimate expansion!” 
– Andrea Lowell, Host of the Playboy Morning Show

“Amy Jo Goddard is as smart and sweet as she is sexy. Funny, witty, and seemingly all-knowing in anything to do with human sexuality, I never want her interviews to end! She’s easily one of my favorite guests.”
– Dan Cummins, Host of The Playboy Morning Show

IMG_3484_2015_06_02By(Shelby)SharieCohenPhotography©About Amy Jo

The most common question I hear is “How did you get into this work?” Since helping people with their sexuality isn’t your everyday occupation, people are often curious about it. My work as a sexual empowerment expert has spanned over 20 years and came directly out of my feminist work to empower women in their bodies, relationships and in the world. It came out of my own history of not having the resources and guides I truly needed when I was grappling with difficult things about my sexuality. I know this is a very common human dilemma.

We all need guides. I went on to find many mentors in my life who I’ve learned from and who have championed me to become the best version of myself I can be. And I, in turn, offer that mentorship to the people I help.