26 09, 2018

Kitten is My Co-Pilot, San Diego Workshops + We On Fire

By |September 26th, 2018|Education, Workshops|0 Comments

Just in case you missed my video this week, I have a new furry friend. You know how the universe provides based on what you're thinking about? Well, my sweet feline companion of 19 years, Pooka, passed away on Friday of Labor Day weekend in 2014 and this year, on Labor Day Weekend, a new [...]

14 09, 2018

What Surfaced From My Dark Night of the Soul

By |September 14th, 2018|Uncategorized|0 Comments

I've been quiet about what's been going on with me lately and I've got to tell you, it has been a dark night of the soul for sure. We all have them. Usually, for me, they happen when I am not doing what I really want to be doing in my life, or not spending my [...]

11 09, 2018

Sexuality & a 9-year-old’s Suicide

By |September 11th, 2018|Education, Sexual Growth|0 Comments

This is heartbreaking. I work with adults around healing and empowering their sexuality because no matter what our age, we need that. This week we lost a sweet 9-year old boy to suicide. Jamel Myles had come out as gay to his mom who accepted him and told him she loved him no matter what. [...]

6 08, 2018

The Archetype of the Fire Woman

By |August 6th, 2018|Uncategorized|1 Comment

The Woman On Fire, The Fire Woman is a powerful archetype, a woman who owns all of who she is without apology. What does “without apology” mean? She makes her choices and follows her own internal compass no matter what others throw at her. She doesn’t say she’s sorry for being, for her choices, for [...]

6 08, 2018

Claiming Your Own Authority

By |August 6th, 2018|Advocacy|0 Comments

Every social ill, political standoff and war boils down to one thing at it’s root: People claiming their own authority—over their lives, bodies, health, livelihoods, sexuality, homes, land or well-being.   There are plenty of people who want to and do tell us what to do on a regular basis. They exert their authority over [...]

6 08, 2018

Where Does the Unknown Scare You?

By |August 6th, 2018|Uncategorized|0 Comments

This week I was teaching a class on the body in my Fire Woman Program. I gave the women a body ritual to do and none of those present had done it, which I thought was odd. The ritual involves letting go of the negative ideas, thoughts and behaviors about your body so you can [...]

2 08, 2018

When A Sex Goddess Claims Her Desire

By |August 2nd, 2018|Pleasure & Desire, Two Column Post Homepage|0 Comments

So you wanna be a Sex Goddess? Be doted on and fonded over, rubbed and nourished, fucked and fed? Here is something to know about a Sex Goddess: she never feels bad about her desires and she has no reason to hold herself back. She is unabashed in her desires and she gets her prowess [...]

6 04, 2018

Tony Robbins, Victimhood, Guru-Complex & Leadership

By |April 6th, 2018|Sexual Politics & Culture|5 Comments

This week we saw a horrendous display of abuse of power by one of the most well-known public speakers in the world—a person who could have chosen to use his platform to usher meaningful change, and instead gave men, abusers, harassers and onlookers a clear out. No need to care about this guys! Let’s break down how [...]

23 02, 2018

What if Sex Were Like Playing Music?

By |February 23rd, 2018|Relationships, Sexual Growth|0 Comments

In Yes Means Yes: Visions of Female Sexual Power & a World Without Rape, Thomas Macaulay Millar– wrote an astute essay about our typical commodification model of sex and how problematic it is in terms of consent and negotiation to treat sex as transactional. When there is an approach of sex as a transaction, it inevitably leads to [...]

16 02, 2018

Be the Lover, Not the Hero

By |February 16th, 2018|Sexual Growth|1 Comment

As the groundbreaking superhero film Black Panther is freshly released, this week the concept of being the hero and how much we are socialized towards a heroism model of leadership and healing has come up several times. I was the oldest child in my family and very much took on that hero role in my family constellation—being the [...]