6 08, 2018

The Archetype of the Fire Woman

By |August 6th, 2018|Uncategorized|1 Comment

The Woman On Fire, The Fire Woman is a powerful archetype, a woman who owns all of who she is without apology. What does “without apology” mean? She makes her choices and follows her own internal compass no matter what others throw at her. She doesn’t say she’s sorry for being, for her choices, for [...]

6 08, 2018

Claiming Your Own Authority

By |August 6th, 2018|Advocacy|0 Comments

Every social ill, political standoff and war boils down to one thing at it’s root: People claiming their own authority—over their lives, bodies, health, livelihoods, sexuality, homes, land or well-being.   There are plenty of people who want to and do tell us what to do on a regular basis. They exert their authority over [...]

6 08, 2018

Where Does the Unknown Scare You?

By |August 6th, 2018|Uncategorized|0 Comments

This week I was teaching a class on the body in my Fire Woman Program. I gave the women a body ritual to do and none of those present had done it, which I thought was odd. The ritual involves letting go of the negative ideas, thoughts and behaviors about your body so you can [...]

2 08, 2018

When A Sex Goddess Claims Her Desire

By |August 2nd, 2018|Pleasure & Desire, Two Column Post Homepage|0 Comments

So you wanna be a Sex Goddess? Be doted on and fonded over, rubbed and nourished, fucked and fed? Here is something to know about a Sex Goddess: she never feels bad about her desires and she has no reason to hold herself back. She is unabashed in her desires and she gets her prowess [...]

6 04, 2018

Tony Robbins, Victimhood, Guru-Complex & Leadership

By |April 6th, 2018|Sexual Politics & Culture|3 Comments

This week we saw a horrendous display of abuse of power by one of the most well-known public speakers in the world—a person who could have chosen to use his platform to usher meaningful change, and instead gave men, abusers, harassers and onlookers a clear out. No need to care about this guys! Let’s break down how [...]

23 02, 2018

What if Sex Were Like Playing Music?

By |February 23rd, 2018|Relationships, Sexual Growth|0 Comments

In Yes Means Yes: Visions of Female Sexual Power & a World Without Rape, Thomas Macaulay Millar– wrote an astute essay about our typical commodification model of sex and how problematic it is in terms of consent and negotiation to treat sex as transactional. When there is an approach of sex as a transaction, it inevitably leads to [...]

16 02, 2018

Be the Lover, Not the Hero

By |February 16th, 2018|Sexual Growth|1 Comment

As the groundbreaking superhero film Black Panther is freshly released, this week the concept of being the hero and how much we are socialized towards a heroism model of leadership and healing has come up several times. I was the oldest child in my family and very much took on that hero role in my family constellation—being the [...]

9 02, 2018

The Creative Impulse is the Nucleus of Sexual Self-Actualization (It’s Not About How Much Sex You Have)

By |February 9th, 2018|Uncategorized|1 Comment

We are just a month into the new year and many people are abandoning their workout plans and stressing about their financial plans with the stock market crash. But what are we doing about our sexual lives? People are in a lot of pain about their sexuality. I talk to people all the time about what [...]

2 02, 2018

It’s Not About You

By |February 2nd, 2018|Relationships, Uncategorized|0 Comments

  The communication blunders that happen on an everyday basis are truly astounding. Ever step back and watch two people get themselves into an argument that could have been completely avoided with a few simple tweaks? I’ve been thinking a lot about these communication blunders. For instance, how when a person is upset about something, and [...]

26 01, 2018

Why We March

By |January 26th, 2018|Uncategorized|0 Comments

We all have something to give in the world and we all have something to heal. Like hundreds of thousands of Americans, I marched last weekend in the Women’s March. Some people don’t understand why someone would go to a march, saying “It doesn’t make any difference.” Oh but it does. It makes a difference [...]