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Meet Amy Jo

As a Sexual Empowerment expert and thought leader, Amy Jo Goddard has guided thousands of people towards the wholeness and fulfillment they want, sexually and in other aspects of their lives. She earned her Master’s degree in Human Sexuality Education from New York University and has over 20 years of experience in the sexuality field. As a renowned speaker and teacher, Amy Jo travels to colleges, communities, and conferences teaching classes and offering keynotes that help people to connect the dots around sexuality and money, expand their creativity, grow their confidence and learn to be bigger in their relationships, in business, and in the world. She delivered her TEDx talk“Owning Your Sexual Power” in Napa Valley, was named one of GO! Magazine’s “100 Women We Love” and one of Kinkly’s “100 Sex Blogging Superheroes.”


Amy Jo teaches her unique 9-month Women’s Sexually Empowered Life Program, maintains a private coaching practice, and hosts events and VIP days with private clients in Napa Valley and New York City. She creates unique opportunities for women and couples to deeply explore, heal, and grow their sexuality. She is also a corporate consultant, helping companies elevate the professional and personal lives of women. She co-authored the highly successful Lesbian Sex Secrets For Men, recently released in second edition, and her second book Woman on Fire: 9 Elements to Wake up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power and Sexual Intelligence was recently published by Penguin Random House.


“I’m perpetually blown away by the intellect and insight that Amy Jo Goddard possesses, into all aspects of human sexuality. She is the ultimate source for personal and intimate expansion!”  – Andrea Lowell, Host of the Playboy Morning Show


Programs with Amy Jo

Fire Woman: 9 Month Virtual Coaching Program


In my Fire Woman 9-month virtual coaching program, women learn to tap into their pleasure, discover their bodies and desire, show up more powerfully in their relationships, demand more for themselves, own their voices, come home to themselves and connect fully to their own sexual energy and power. This virtual circle of women from around the globe receive powerful teachings that help them to improve and create a more fulfilled sexual life, and gives them space to discuss and get underneath the surface. You’ll get coaching and support to see blind spots and move past them, and tools to put to bed all that is negative and unproductive about your sexuality, relationships and intimacy.

Based on the tenets of my book Woman On Fire: 9 Elements to Wake Up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power and Sexual Intelligence (Penguin Random House), Fire Woman is my unique flagship program: designed to help you look at all facets of your sexual life in order to heal and create the new sexual life and expression you most want.

Applications are open for 2017 – click here to learn more and apply

Real sexual confidence isn’t about trying to meet some ideal of “sexy”; it’s about owning your own distinctive style and maximizing your strengths to take the lead in your intimate relationships and professional life. This 6-module audio course is designed for people who want to be more confident in sex and dating and who want that confidence to radiate outwards into other areas of their lives: creative, relational and professional.

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Do you want to have deeper orgasms, get out of your head during sex, and have more pleasure — with yourself and with a partner? My five-module video course is a deep dive into pleasure, orgasm, desire, arousal and sexual communication–designed for people with vulvas and people who want to learn to please vulvas.

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Books by Amy Jo

Woman On Fire: 9 Elements to Wake Up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power and Sexual Intelligence

Available now from Penguin Random House.

In a cultural landscape that defines achievement in terms of the workplace and the family, and that judges women’s worth by superficial standards of beauty, sexuality is often overlooked as an essential piece of women’s power. In Woman on Fire, Amy Jo Goddard lays out her holistic, inside-out approach to sexual empowerment–one that examines sexuality not only in terms of what happens in the bedroom, but through a lens of personal power and the erotic energy that is at our core.

“I know this book was written with women in mind, but the fact is it would work super well for anyone who identifies or expresses themselves along the more female/feminine tendrils of the gender continuum. Woman On Fire is simply a smart, fierce, step-by-step guide by which we can finally name and actualize a meaningful and satisfying sexuality for ourselves, far beyond the limits of hetero-or-homo. That’s a big wow.”
Kate Bornstein, author of A Queer and Pleasant Danger & Gender Outlaw
“There is not a woman I know who will not find part of her story, her sexual journey, her genuine concerns answered in Woman on Fire. Amy Jo Goddard, trail blazer and pioneer with deep wisdom and knowledge, understands that for us, sex is exponentially greater than what our culture defines. For us, our sexuality encompasses a universe of feelings, relationships, body image, cultural messages, desires, and even unhealed trauma that we are bravely traversing. By naming a myriad of possibilities and honoring you where you are at, Woman on Fire is your guidebook where you can cast off shame and dare to take back your birthright as an ecstatic woman who is at home within herself.”
ALisa Starkweather, Founder of the Red Tent Temple Movement and Women in Power
“Woman on Fire is a passionate, empowering, game-changing guide for femme-identified people around the globe who want to break through the sex-negative garbage that has kept women playing small. Brava, Amy Jo Goddard!”
Barbara Carrellas, author of Ecstasy is Necessary and Urban Tantra
“I want every woman, young to old, to have access to this beautiful and compassionate book––and there’s much insight here for people of every gender who want to heal their relationship to their bodies, their ability to experience pleasure, and to the cultural stories about sex and gender we are so deeply affected by. Amy Jo Goddard has made the study and practice of sexual empowerment her life’s work so she can be of service to everyone wounded by lack of support, knowledge, and access to desire and consent. Read Woman on Fire for the building blocks to your own wild, sex-positive, and empowered life.”
Carol Queen, PhD, author of Exhibitionism for the Shy

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Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men

Revised, updated and available now from Penguin Random House.

The book that has sold tens of thousands of copies is now revised and expanded, including new sections about analingus, feminism and men, how to support your bisexual girlfriend, polyamory and other relationship styles, a new sexual workout, and more. This book will change your sex life!

For men, the intimate workings of the female body have long remained one of the great mysteries of the universe. What gives her the most pleasure? Where should you be touching her – and how? Fortunately, there are some people who can offer men the empirical knowledge gained from a lifetime of pleasing women – and getting pleased by them. This frank, frolicsome, and wonderfully illuminating book draws on the sexual advice and sex secrets of lesbians to help men become better lovers. A groundbreaking dialogue between straight men and gay women, and an erotic look inside the often hidden world of lesbian sex, Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men reveals a whole new approach to pleasure for men and the women they love. At the same time, this book proves that while sex is something we all do naturally, a little focused effort – and a few simple lessons – can open up a whole new world of enjoyment.

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Featured Articles by Amy Jo


What makes it hard to open up to ask for what you want sexually?

In this 3-part video training series I walk you through the ABCs of sexual self-acceptance so you can cut through confusion about what you want, create more intimacy in your relationships, and experience deeper pleasure.

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