The importance of an opulent sex life

Sex + Money: The Two Pillars of Joy

There are two things we don’t teach young people about, and that we do a poor job of teaching adults about. They are the two things we need most--and also the two things for which education and the right tools would be a total game changer. Ever … [Continue reading]

Your Journey to Sexual Wholeness: Coming home to your sexual self

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Adapted from my class The Journey To Sexual Wholeness: The 7 Gateways to Sexual Empowerment.  The journey to sexual wholeness is not linear. Sometimes it’s circuitous.  The last few weeks we have been talking about the 7 gateways to sexual … [Continue reading]

Welcome to your Sexually Empowered Life!

As a sexuality educator and sex and relationship coach, I am committed to empowering people to heal, nurture and celebrate their sexuality and have fulfilling intimate relationships. I believe that healthy sexuality and non-violent, emotionally … [Continue reading]

Your Journey to Sexual Wholeness: Where to go next…

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Adapted from my class The Journey To Sexual Wholeness: The 7 Gateways to Sexual Empowerment.  Many of you know that I’ve worked with thousands of people around sexuality and relationships over my 20-year career—in fact September was my … [Continue reading]

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Your Journey to Sexual Wholeness: Where to begin…

Adapted from my class Journey To Sexual Wholeness: The 7 Gateways to Sexual Empowerment.  I have midwifed so many women through a process of stepping into their personal power and in creating the sexual and financial fulfillment they deeply … [Continue reading]

Dancing Around Sexual Vulnerability

I’m feeling pretty grateful this week, as we’re completing the final weekend of the fourth generation of the Women’s Sexually Empowered Life Program here in Napa. I’m struck by how profound vulnerability is for the change people are able … [Continue reading]

Rebirthing Yourself Out of Loss

Experiencing a painful loss this week as my animal companion and dear friend of nearly 19 years went to the next world, I got to thinking about what is birthed out of loss. There is no greater human experience than love and loss—two sides of the … [Continue reading]

Is Your Diploma in “Not Enough”?

We’ve all heard about the historical legacy of women not making as much money as men for the same jobs—a pattern that (not) surprisingly still exists today. Part of the reason is that women are afraid to ask for raises or more money and are … [Continue reading]