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The Debate Over Female Desire and the New Desire Drugs


We all get fed a very specific story about sexuality in the media, in the way sexuality is taught in schools and universities, in the way medicine is practiced, in the way sex is talked about (and not talked about), and in how sex is portrayed in … [Continue reading]

Understanding the Sexual Voice


I’ve struck a chord with my dialogue on “Finding the Sexual Voice.”  I saw record numbers for my recent webinar and have been flooded with questions about how to release the sexual voice.  Some people feel like their sexual voice is stifled, … [Continue reading]

50 Shades of Pseudo Kink + How to Kink it Up Right

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Download your Empowered BDSM & Kink Guide here! … [Continue reading]

If Valentine’s Day Were Self-Love Day

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It’s that time of year again when no one can go out to dinner if they didn’t plan it out a month in advance, every flower in the county is spoken for and brain chemistry spikes with all that chocolate consumption. Some lovers look forward to a … [Continue reading]

Love is an Action


Last week we said goodbye to my grandfather as he went to the next world. Some family members showed up and some didn’t. As we were talking about how sweet it was to be together, I said that I believe love is an action that starts with how you … [Continue reading]

When Your Sexual Energy is Blocked


We all have a bowl inside us, a well, a deep gorge of energy that is our core sexual energy. For many people, that energy is buried deep, smothered, depleted, seemingly inaccessible. For others, it is alive, vibrant, flowing and rich. No matter the … [Continue reading]

4 Truths About Female Ejaculation: The Debate Continues

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Female ejaculation is still a hot button topic as demonstrated by the response to the research study just published in The Journal of Sexual Medicine that was then misappropriated by the popular website I Fucking Love Science. In the 90s when … [Continue reading]

Planning Makes Sex Hot: How to Have the Sexy Year of Your Dreams in 2015

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People have many myths and misunderstandings about sexuality, and in my work one of the biggest myths I’ve heard over and over about sex is that it should just “be spontaneous” or that it “should just happen.” Somehow the idea that sex … [Continue reading]

Understanding Sexual Evolution: a conversation with Destin Gerek

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Check out Destin's event, Evolve LIVE: The Sexual/Spiritual Transformation, January 16-18th 2015. Destin has invited me to be part of his panel on the evolution of sexual consciousness; I can't wait to continue this important conversation! Use … [Continue reading]